Being body positive doesn’t mean that you have to be positive 24/7.
It entails learning to love the body you have.
It’s a journey.
You don’t always have to like your body.
Part of being body positive is unlearning all of the hatred you have toward your body and that doesn’t happen over night.
It’s okay to have bad days.
millions of real existing people fall in love with straight men. what the fuck
im still thinking about this. they dont just befriend and hang out with straight men, they get emotional about them. they think ‘this person is the best thing that ever happened to me’. i think there was a time when this phenomenon made sense to me but now it does not.
I’m actually in love with a straight man and it STILL doesn’t make sense to me.
- Question submitted Anonymously & Answered by Broderick Greer, Master’s of Divinity student
I am writing this response as a son, not as a parent. Since I do not have children of my own, it would be disingenuous for me to claim that I know what it is like to have a son or…
The only real security is not in owning or possessing, not in demanding or expecting, not in hoping, even. Security in a relationship lies neither in looking back to what was in nostalgia, nor forward to what it might be in dread or anticipation, but living in the present relationship and accepting it as it is now. Relationships must be like islands, one must accept them for what they are here and now, within their limits - islands, surrounded and interrupted by the sea, and continually visited and abandoned by the tides." —
Anne Morrow Lindbergh’s “The Gift From The Sea” (via loveyourchaos)
ok ok ok
Fun fact: if you argue against the existence of monosexual privilege because “you can’t be privileged for the same reason you’re oppressed,” or because “monosexual privilege groups lesbians with straight men,” then guess what, you’re a transmisogynist. The exact same…